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It happens to the best of us as we get older. We get all the way to the grocery store, realize we’ve left our shopping list at home and are unable to recall more than two items on that list. Or, we walk out of the mall and wander from aisle to aisle, with no idea where we’ve parked the car.

These momentary lapses in memory are jokingly referred to as “senior moments.” Experts agree that in general, there is no need to become alarmed over these instances of minor forgetfulness. However, when memory loss is combined with other issues, such as changes in personality or mood, or when it begins to disrupt daily life, there is a strong chance something more serious is occurring.

What is Alzheimer’s Disease?

Alzheimer’s is a type of dementia that causes problems with memory, thinking and behavior. A progressive disease, Alzheimer’s symptoms gradually worsen over time as brain function continues to decline. According to the Alzheimer's Association, Alzheimer’s disease is the most common type of dementia, accounting for 60-80 percent of all dementia cases.

Currently, there is no cure for Alzheimer’s disease. However, healthy lifestyle choices and certain new treatments may delay some of the symptoms. Receiving the proper amount of care can also improve quality of life in individuals with Alzheimer’s.

Normal Memory Loss vs. Alzheimer’s Symptoms

Normal aging leads to changes in the brain, especially in regard to memory and learning. Molecules known as free radicals may damage neurons, while other neurons simply shrink as you age. High blood pressure can also damage brain neurons. These conditions can make it difficult to recall recently-learned information, like remembering your daughter’s new friend’s name.

However, the damage caused by Alzheimer’s disease is more severe and affects larger regions of the brain. This specific type of dementia occurs when high levels of proteins inside and outside brain cells make it difficult for the cells to stay healthy and communicate correctly with each other. Alzheimer’s ultimately leads to the death of nerve cells and the loss of brain tissue.

As a comparison, normal memory loss associated with aging includes:

  • Walking into a room and forgetting what you needed
  • Misplacing items, like your glasses, purse, etc.
  • Forgetting the name of a person you just met
  • Becoming easily distracted, moving from project to project without ever completing one
  • Missing an appointment because it was not written down on a calendar
  • Calling a loved one by the wrong name- like addressing your daughter by your sister’s name
  • Trouble retrieving information that’s on the tip of your tongue

Alzheimer’s symptoms, on the other hand, include:

  • Getting disoriented or lost in familiar places
  • Mixing up the words for everyday objects
  • Difficulty performing everyday tasks, like balancing a checkbook or putting on clothes
  • Forgetting how to do activities you’ve always enjoyed
  • Displaying poor judgment, or falling prey to a senior scam
  • Forgetting a loved one’s name altogether
  • Withdrawing socially from friends and family
  • Difficulty recalling information about a very recent event

In this video, John H. Schumann, M.D., President of the University of Oklahoma – Tulsa shares more about how to tell if your loved one is experiencing these signs of Alzheimer’s disease or is just aging normally.

Nationally-Recognized Alzheimer’s and Dementia Care at Saint Simeon’s

Find compassionate, individualized memory care and support at the memory center at Saint Simeon’s. We offer a comfortable, home-like setting staffed by professionals specifically trained in Alzheimer’s and dementia care, with innovative services and amenities that allow residents to thrive. For more information about applying for admission to our memory center, please contact us today.

Saint Simeon’s recently unveiled a new program called Music and Memory, sponsored by LeadingAge. Life Enrichment staff members interview Memory Center Residents about their musical tastes, and they then load iPods for the Residents with the exact songs and artists the Residents enjoy. “It is very personalized,” said Chris Gruszeczki, Administrator.

Music is used every day in Residents’ lives as a calming technique, a way to help them wake up in the morning, or even a way to get them to come out of their shell. “One Memory Center Resident wasn’t talking at all,” Gruszeczki said. “We gave him a CD player with some of his favorite music in it, and afterwards, he conversed for the first time with our staff.”

Gruszeczki said that while former Residents enjoyed music from the ‘20s and ‘30s like big band, today’s Residents span a number of decades and like music from the ‘40s and ‘50s, and even the Beatles and ‘70s rock and roll.

“Music touches everyone – no matter what their condition or cognitive status,” Gruszeczki said. “Residents in the late stages of dementia may not talk anymore, but they can still sing. People who can’t do anything for themselves will still tap their toe along to music.”


benefits of assisted livingStarting the conversation with an aging loved one about moving to an assisted living community can sometimes present a difficult or uncomfortable situation. This is especially true when the individual has been living independently in his or her home for many years, and may have no intention of moving until it is absolutely necessary.

However, sometimes family caregivers become so overwhelmed by their caregiving responsibilities that they begin to experience a decline in their own health. And, there are certain signs an aging loved one could truly benefit from a higher level of care provided by a team of compassionate professionals. In these cases, an assisted living community can not only improve quality of life for the older adult, but for the caregiver, too.

Signs a Loved One Needs Assisted Living

While every journey down the path of aging is unique, research shows that up to 70 percent of all seniors over the age of 65 should expect to need some form of long-term care in the future. Assisted living is one of the fastest-growing options for senior housing. Although at first many seniors fear losing their independence in a community setting, many residents report that the daily supportive services they receive actually leads to a boost in their health, allowing them to be more independent than they were when living alone in their previous homes.

The next time you visit your aging loved one, try to pay attention to the following signs to determine if an assisted living community could improve his or her quality of life:

The home or yard looks neglected. Are dishes piling up in the sink? Is the lawn overgrown? It may be getting difficult for aging loved ones to properly maintain the home due to some chronic conditions or mobility issues. Also, look at your loved one’s appearance. Is he or she wearing clean clothes, have washed hair, etc.?

Escalating health issues. It’s not uncommon for chronic conditions like arthritis or osteoporosis to worsen with age, causing health issues to escalate. With increasing health issues comes the possibility of more serious concerns for your loved one’s overall safety and quality of life.

Trouble moving around the home. Daily routines may become difficult as chronic conditions worsen, and your loved one may need assistance simply getting out of bed or down a flight of stairs.

Signs of forgetfulness. Even mild cognitive impairment can be problematic for seniors, who may begin to display signs of forgetfulness that put them at risk (for example, forgetting to turn off the stove or skipping medications and meals).

Being alone in the home for extended periods of time. Staying engaged and connected with others by continuing to build relationships is so vital for seniors to thrive. However, when seniors live alone, social isolation can lead to depression, cognitive decline, and other health concerns.

Family relationships suffering. As time goes on, the relationship once enjoyed as mother, son, father, daughter, etc. may evolve to that of caregiver and recipient of care. This leaves little time for you to enjoy spending quality time together.

How Moving to an Assisted Living Community Improves Quality of Life

The caring staff at an assisted living community quickly becomes a part of your loved one’s extended family. The team stays on top of all aspects of your loved one’s health and wellness and provides peace of mind to family caregivers that all his or her needs are being met in a timely manner. Plus, should an emergency occur, help is available seven days a week, 24 hours a day.

Residents no longer worry about housekeeping, yardwork, cooking meals or even driving to doctor appointments. Plus, assisted living communities recognize the impact social engagement has on residents’ wellbeing, as socially active seniors maintain more cognitive function and have a lower risk for depression. Your loved one will enjoy a wide variety of social events, lifelong learning opportunities and more to keep them entertained and engaged in life.

4 Levels of Senior Assisted Living Care at Saint Simeon’s

Experience the difference of the assisted living community at Saint Simeon’s! With no hidden or additional fees for services like medication management and incontinence care and no buy-in fee, your loved one will have the option to age in place, with four levels of assisted living care provided under one roof. We also offer Assisted Living Plus, the highest level of assisted living care in Tulsa. Some individuals who may require nursing care at another facility may qualify for Assisted Living Plus.

Other services and amenities for assisted living residents at Saint Simeon’s include access to our Wellness Center with a warm water therapy pool, massage room and more, plus specialized memory care and Parkinson's care. Learn more about our assisted living community by contacting us today.









dementia-friendly tulsa

Every day at Saint Simeon’s, we offer memory care and support for individuals with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. We were the first senior community in Tulsa to provide dementia care when our ground-breaking Memory Center opened in 1994. At that time, Alzheimer’s was a little-known term. Saint Simeon’s board of trustees conducted years of research, which resulted in a memory care unit that has a cutting-edge design, keeping people with dementia in mind in every detail, from lighting, to paint colors, to wide hallways. When staff at Saint Simeon’s heard about Tulsa becoming a Dementia Friendly city, it was something we naturally wanted to support.

Recognizing the Signs of Dementia

It’s likely that even if you don’t have a loved one with dementia, you still come across someone who has dementia every week, or you may recognize some of the signs of dementia in those around you. Maybe it’s the lady lost in the aisles at the grocery store. Maybe it’s the man in front of you in line at the bank. People with dementia can still be thriving members of society. They may just need a little help from time to time.

Tulsa: A Dementia Friendly City

Mayor GT Bynum announced on June 30 that Tulsa has become a Dementia Friendly city, in affiliation with Dementia Friendly America. The driving force behind Dementia Friendly America is to help foster communities that are more aware of people with dementia. The numbers related to dementia are staggering. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, in the last five years of life, the costs of a person with dementia, on average, total more than $287,000. One in 10 people age 65 and older (has Alzheimer's dementia, the Alzheimer’s Association estimates.

In addition, about one-third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s. In Tulsa in particular, about 6,000 Tulsans over age 65 are estimated to have dementia, based on 2015 U.S. Census demographics and 2017 Alzheimer’s Facts and Figures. Their caregivers are estimated to number 18,000, enough people to fill the BOK Center. The Dementia Friendly Tulsa initiative chips away at the social isolation people with dementia experience. It encourages respectful inclusion, access and engagement across all community sectors. Overall, the goal of a Dementia Friendly City is kindness. If you recognize someone displaying the signs of dementia, such as seeing someone lost in the grocery store, don’t leave it up to the employees to help. If you have a neighbor who has dementia, what can you do to extend a helping hand?

To learn more about Dementia Friendly Tulsa, visit

For more information about dementia care at the Memory Center at Saint Simeon’s, please contact us today.

Thanks to all who participated in the Flat Simone competition! From January to June, we encouraged our Saint Simeon’s family to take a picture of Simone with them all over the world and upload the photos to social media using the hashtag #simonesaintsimeons. We had dozens of entries, and the competition was even featured by KOTV the News on 6.

And the winner of the competition is… drumroll, please….

Resident Louise Treadway, who went “flyfishing somewhere in midtown Tulsa” with Flat Simone! She is the winner of a $250 Southwest Airlines gift card!

Honorable mentions are:

  • Former Foundation employee Nicole Graham, who took Flat Simone with her on the set of Wheel of Fortune.
  • Resident Mary Zang’s daughter Cindy Woodward, who visited her son and daughter-in-law in Costa Rica and took Flat Simone with her.
  • Former Resident Alpha Clapp’s daughter Penny Jelinek, who took Flat Simone with her all over Kentucky, Missouri, Illinois, Mississippi, and Tennessee. “Simone made our trip to take Mom to her final resting place,” Penny said.
  • Staff member Kathy Hinkle’s daughter Kelly Hinkle took Flat Simone with her the furthest of any contestant: all the way to Saudi Arabia!
  • Staff member Denise Fack submitted the most Flat Simone entries. Flat Simone joined her on the job, at The Mercantile in Pawhuska (pictured here with Pioneer Woman Ree Drummond), and all over Claremore.
  • Staff member John Elliott took Flat Simone to Disney World.
  • Former Resident Wildfred Sherwin’s granddaughter Tori Wantland took Flat Simone all over Tulsa: to Coney Islander, to get her nails done, shopping, and more.
  • Flat Simone joined Trustee George Dotson and family at his birthday party.
  • Our “cutest” contestants were staff member Carolyn Blair’s daughter Audrey and her cousins, who took Flat Simone on vacation to Charleston.

Slideshow of Honorable Mentions

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